By Shawn
Submitted: 2 years ago
I know I asked for prayer about this yesterday but I’m up and can’t sleep I’m so bothered by my husband telling our son who leaves Monday for the military to not come
back home. My son texted me to tell me he don’t want his dad to come to his graduation and my husband told him to not come back. I don’t understand how my husband can proclaim to love and follow god and he can tel his son something like that regardless of the situation. What bothers me even more is that I don’t feel as though I can talk to my husband about it without him thinking I’m taking sides. I’m bothered because I can only imagine how I would feel if my parent told me to not come back home or told me I’m not wanted or welcomed back home. Our son already don’t have his dad to go to for advice or guidance and he is scared about the biggest decision he has ever made. My son said he is going to tell his dad before he leave to cut him off and don’t come to the graduation. I pray that god will touch both of there hearts and allow them to reconcile before my son leave on Monday. I pray that my husband can put his pride aside and apologize for getting in his emotions to say such a hurtful thing to our son. I pray that my son can forgive his dad and allow him to come to his graduation. I’m so tired of them two thinking they don’t like each other. Pray that god will shut down the negative thoughts they have against each other. They are two grown men and holding onto so much hurt they caused each other and assumptions and now is not the time for them to go against each other. Pray they lift each other up. Pray that I can hear from god for how he want to use me in this situation. My husband tell my daughter all his issues pray that she wont tell him what he want to hear so he won’t be upset with her and she will tell him what he said was hurtful and not nice.