My daughter is a 17 and we I feel don’t have the relationship I see most have sure I want our own I just want her to talk to me love me not just tell me what she thinks I want to hear. I feel she only knows loves me when she need something and everyone is like she is a teenager she will grown out of this, She says I am to much I need to back off let her grow up and how can I do more then what I already am I tell her I love her, proud of her yet I feel like that worthless mom b/c I cant buy everything we don’t have our own home we rent bottom line there is love roof food clothes sure I love to own a home 1 day I pray all the time along with praying for her and I and my other kids. Today I found a letter a girl rote her telling her karma will me I am shameless I will get what I deserve one day what is this about she played it off as if it was a letter form a long time ago I don’t believe that I cried all day and just went along with it I don’t want to fight anymore what did I do wrong or not enough of I keep asking her and myself , her dad and he did have my back we all talked nicely but still do I feel better no way ! the she asked do you want a hug and waited for me to say yes as I have a face full of tears yet her hug was light soft was like ok gross mom get off I am thinking I said thank you fro hug and I love you and she wen ton her way to clean her bedroom and I am left feeling sad , tired, etc.