My 26 yr old daughter told us out of the blue in a text that she is in a same sex relationship and plans to marry this woman that makes her happy. We had just spent Christmas with her (she lives in another state) and she never indicated anything about this. She said she knows we don't agree with that religiously and doesn't want any negativity from us. I am heartbroken and devastated. I feel like I have failed as a mother and a Christian. In my head I know she is an adult and responsible for her own decisions and life, but my heart hurts. I've been in shock for the last three weeks, but today it is really hitting me and I can't stop crying. I remind myself that my identity is in Christ and that hasn't changed but I'm having a hard time doing the things I need to do. Please pray for me and my husband.