I recently found out the man I have been married to for 33 years is not who I thought he was. I am devastated to know he has been an adulterer all these years but more concerning is how stupid I was not to see it. Looking back all the red flags were there. Please pray for me that I find a way to navigate this. Reconciliation is out of the question as this deception was going on my entire marriage. I believe in forgiveness but this is not a one night stand. I can never trust him again!!!