My husband of 30 years was always and still is very emotionally and mentally abusive. His personality flips from being nice to almost scary abusive. It's gotten worse with age. I really want to move on but not sure how to make this happen. I don't care to live with him any longer and I don't have an attachment to the house. I have been through so much that material things don't matter anymore but there are so many variables to consider. My 20 year old daughter has expressed anger towards me that I have allowed myself to be treated like a doormat and how it was a bad example to her growing up. I am worried that she will allow herself to be treated badly in relationships because that is what she knows as "normal". Please pray for God to show me a path forward.