So when someone who has served the Lord her whole life dies does it have to be so bad/ Do they have to suffer? I have often wondered this, Seems on my mother’s side of the family sickness has been the norm. So far all of the brothers and sisters have died from cancer and now my Aunt is in hospice suffering from a rare blood disease her days are back and forth. Today she is not responding, and the nurse has yet had a chance to come check on her. She wants to die she is tired and wants to see her husband son and granddaughter again who have gone before her. Don’t know what else to say seen it to0 many times in this family.