Many prayers. Many prayers iam trying to say no more often. Help keep me strong. This is going to be a mess. My brother inlaw when you tell him no he usually does it anyways. My daughter and him but head badly. Daughter wants him gone. We have been trying to help him and he can be very rude to women. We let him stay at our house for 200 a month We feed him sometimes not all the time. He has told me we don’t do enough for him. When he drinks he gets in people’s face and when asked to stop he won’t do so. Then it starts a fight. Many many prayers let your will be done.