Joe,

The LORD Jesus loves you and your wife. Your Faith in him is so awesome. It is is hard seeing a loved one go through pain and suffering that you cannot fix, only GOD heals according to His Will. I too was so sick with unknown nervous system disease. I was married at the time and because my husband could not fix or make my pain go away it led him to heavy drinking. You have such love to the LORD Jesus. Put your full trust in him and His Holy Word. GOD will help you. Be patient. The LORD has a plan for you. I hope this helps; for I truly have compassion for your difficulties.