I am divorced mom with 2 kids and raining my son 13yr old is the hardest. hes a good kid but very rude talks back and just rebelious. when i tell him to do something he always questions the reason for it and or says hes just not doing that or this and how hes going to go live with his dad instead.. im stressed all the time checking on his grades constant emailing teachers on his grades and they go up after me fussing with him and them but then slowly back to same. they diagnosed him with adhd but honestly he just doesnt like to listen and just forgets things all the time and doesnt focus on things he just doesnt like. they diagnosed based on what teachers said. if its not football or games or talking to some girl he likes he doesnt care for it. im running out of options and wonder if i should send with his dad. his dad drinks on weekends has a girlfriend with a kids herself so he puts more time for them and only sees my kids on sundays. everytime i ask him to help talk to him he says he will but doesnt. his dad stoped going to church and just has more freedom with him. he listens to wordly music and curses too and thats why i dont want to send him but im too stressed and need a break and maybe this change will help him realize how good he has it but then i also risk loosing him and him going the wrong road, i asked God plenty times and i dreamed i saw their dad drunk and me taking kids from him but thats all the signs ive gotten and i keep asking God to give me a sign because this yr i want to focus on myself mental and physical and with his character and school theres no time but to stress. i already work double shifts and do so much fro them i dont feel appreciated.