“A ✝️ Man”
(Philippians 2:1–13 • Ephesians 5 • Proverbs 31 • 1 Corinthians 13 • Titus 2)

I pray in Jesus Christ✝️ name
As Your Holy Spirit breathes on us
May truth be told
May its weight strengthen
Through God’s love,
As we look to A ✝️ Man.
Named Jesus Christ✝️
Who is above all
Through all
And in you all

Because tonight…
I’m not just praying for a figure,
a feeling,
or some fantasy version of masculinity
Yet I’m talking clearly about divinity
Jesus Christ✝️, the one
the world keeps remixing—

As it relates to Getting A ✝️ Man
There is only One✝️
Defined by God✝️.
✝️One formed in humility,
forged in obedience,
and framed in ✝️Love so real
it corrects, protects, and resurrects everything around him.
To the end now that the church to this day
says A ✝️ Man!
There’s only One✝️!
Because You already spoke him before she ever prayed for him.
As we think a sec on,

The Mind of Christ in a ✝️Man

You told 👍🏾us🕊, it should
“be in you…”
so tonight we stretch that declaration wide:
Let this mind be in you, me, him, and her
—
A Philippi mind,
thats bowed-low,
the serving others first,
Obedient unto purpose.
A man who doesn’t flex ego
but bends his will toward Heaven—
a man shaped like submission
and strong like gentleness
because the Lamb and the Lion live in the same chest.
This is A ✝️ Man!
Think Right-eous-ness!

To 🕊… this is who 🕊she wants.
A man who ✝️Loves like 1 Corinthians 13
—patient, kind, unprovoked, steady—
And ever ready!
not childish in emotion, but grown in spirit,
not puffed up, but built up,
because he knows ✝️Love isn’t performance.
It’s protection.
It’s presence.
It’s promise in practice.
Ask David in the Old Testament!
Then observe,
A man who leads like Ephesians 5,
not by domination,
but by demonstration—
washing his household with the Word,
honoring God first so he can honor you right.
A man whose strength is not a threat
but a shelter.
Whose authority isn’t noise
but navigation.
A man who says,
“If Christ✝️ died for me,
then my pride can die for us.”
Sis… 🕊
This is Our ✝️son in Whom I’m well pleased! 
“Listen!”
you’re not praying for a vibe…
you’re praying for a vessel.

**Now Lord… show her the other side:
A ✝️ Woman (Proverbs 31 • Titus 2)**
Because she should desire in her own life
what she’s expecting in the next generation.
Build her into the Proverbs 31 rhythm:
diligent hands,
wise mouth,
strong back,
soft heart.
A woman who creates peace like atmosphere,
speaks wisdom like oxygen,
and laughs at the days to come
because fear can’t sit in a future she built with ✝️faith❤️.

Let the Titus 2 mentorship fall on her 🕊 life—
older women shaping younger ones,
younger women honoring the legacy,
wives building,
mothers anchoring,
daughters rising,
communities shifting.
Let her feel this prayer
until it settles as identity.
Like, “Yaasss”

As the echo of Christ✝️ in Every Generation

In the older men —
Self-control, dignity, sound faith.
In the younger men —
discipline, integrity, example-setting swagger that honors God.
Consider our Savior in the temple!

In the older women —
Think Mary, Esther, Ruth, Deborah
reverence, wisdom, teaching with patience and precision.
In the younger women —
love, purity, stewardship, purposeful strength.
Lord, illustrate Christ✝️ in all of them—
not gender boxes,
but divine blueprints.
Not roles,
but reflections.
Because every generation needs a version of ✝️You
that stands in the skin they’re wearing today.

A ✝️ Man

Lord…
let 🕊 her see him
not as fantasy,
but as formation.
Not as perfection,
but as progression.
A man still being shaped
but fully surrendered to the shaping.
A man who honors her with ✝️Vision
before he honors her with vows.
A man who chooses 🕊holiness over hype,
duty over ego,
legacy over lust.
A man who’s dangerous to hell
and safe to her heart.
A man who can ✝️Love her well
because he loves ✝️You first.

For 🕊sleep on it and
let this prayer be felt.
As a “Yaasss!” out her soul
because ✝️We✝️ know
You don’t build halfway!
You don’t promise halfway!
You don’t love halfway!
That’s NO ✝️ WAY!
So Lord, sell this vision to her spirit—
not man-worship
but God-shaped partnership.
Not fantasy romance
but Christ-like alignment. Thats real!
Not emotional hunger
but generational healing.
Let her be motivated by Your Love
and our shared “Vision” of God’s Love:
To God,
against Sin
and Action towards others
as Christ gave everything.
This is the blueprint.
This is the covering.
This is 👍🏾Our🕊 prayer.

In Jesus Christ✝️ name 👍🏾We🕊 pray and give thanks.
A ✝️ Man.