Prayers for brother inlaw he says he is stressed out. Please help this situation he doesn’t understand when we are trying to explain rules and sometimes he just doesn’t listen. I can ask for certain things to be done that is his responsibility not mine he just ignores me until I get my husband to say something. There are many things he just doesn’t understand right from wrong. Yes he is an adult he chooses to live with us and our house has rules. Let your will be done.