Many prayers Lord. Raising children and being married isn’t easy. Trust, communication, compromising when 2 don’t agree not playing the blame game when things don’t turn out right. If you spare the rod you spoil the child. This doesn’t mean beat your child but yes decipline is important. 2 parents working together important. 2 parents making decisions together for the better of their children their life style and their religion important. Let your will be done.